Ancient Mating Dance Instructions For Women

Ok girls, here is how you can pick the man that YOU WANT from a crowd:

Catch his attention as he looks around the room and look directly into his eyes. When your eyes meet, smile and hold the connection a little longer than normally done. Do it noticeably longer than when looking at other men and friends. This is definitely a very special gaze and it packs a powerful body language message.

While looking at him, think these thoughts so your face will be most inviting to him and it will help you time your gaze: "Come here big man, I am the special woman you want and I am all yours! All you have to do is come to me." (He might even read your mind!)

If the guy maintains eye contact with you, then smile and drop your gaze DOWN to your lap or table.
In a few seconds glance back to see if he is paying close enough attention to look back to meet your eyes again for a even more friendly eye contact. Gaze into his eyes again for a slightly longer time, then smile and look down.

Please Note that:


1. Making Eye Contact Shows Interest
Looking directly into the eyes of another person can send a powerful message indicating either a desire for closer contact or a challenge to fight. The length of eye contact and the body language, with facial expression, reveals if the contact is to be inviting or threatening. So be sure to smile when you are trying to make a friendly connection with this long eye contact.

Observing the eye movements of acquaintances can be very revealing. For example, when meeting a new person if they make only very brief eye contact, then their interest in you is minimal. They will remain emotionally distant from you until something changes their attitude. This weak personal connection toward you may not necessarily have anything to do with you. He or she may feel intimidated, inferior, frightened, or shy.

Watch for these eye patterns when you are using your flirting eye contact:

If he or she looks away quickly while you are holding your gaze, then there is little interest in you -- or they have interest but are afraid of intimacy or are shy.

(For women)If he holds his eye contact until you break it off to look down, then he has interest in you. If he is there to meet your gaze when you look back up, or he repeatedly glances in that direction, then he has great interest in you.

Researchers have measured the length of the average casual eye contact at about 100 milliseconds (one-tenth second). The flirting eye contact lasts at least 150 milliseconds. Amazingly it is done unconsciously and very accurately in most cultures. This longer than usual eye contact is an ancient body language signal indicating interest.


2. Looking Down Indicates Passiveness
It is important to understand the strong message you send when you hold your gaze for longer than normal, then break eye contact and look DOWN. This is body language from our ancestors that is programmed into our DNA. This is what the message is:

A Smile and Long Eye Contact = "I am friendly and happy to see you. I am interested in you."

Looking Down = "I will not resist you! You may come closer." The receiver of this message should read it as, "I want you to approach me! I am waiting for you!"

I wonder how many men have fallen for that women's trick over the past million years?

The Lure Of Color

What color can you wear to compel the opposite sex to
approach you?

Women are attracted to men wearing the color blue. And why
wouldn't we be? guys who frequently
wear blue are "stable, faithful, constant and always there." The
blue guy is a fantastic candidate for a long-term relationship --
someone who's dependable, momogomous and can match his
own clothes.

And what about the ladies?
Women should wear a pink- peach to make themselves most approachable. The
color is very flattering to most skin tones, it gives you healthy
glow, and shows a little vulnerability
which brings out something protective in men.

Want to wear a color that weeds out guys who can't handle
strong women? 
Try a deep red, burgundy or plum. Men who
aren't attracted to strong women will steer clear.

Of all the colors, red is the most sensual. But, wear red with
caution. "Red is the color of sex and power," says Eiseman.
Red adds an element of excitement and attracts two types of
men - men interested in sex, and men attracted to powerful
women. Sure, you'll probably have to fend off a lot of freaks,
but you could also end up attracting a guy that isn't threatened
by the fact that you make a bigger salary.

Concerned your wardrobe is driving people away? Stay away
from what Eiseman calls "squished caterpillar yellow-green"
which is said to repel both sexes equally.

Attract a Man with Safe Body Language

Three simple things you can do with your body language to make you see more approachable to men:

1. Don’t take up a lot of space (which is a sign of wanting power and superiority.We are strong women, but remember, we’re trying to get a man to come over and talk to us, you have to show you have room for someone else in your life.
2. In addition, to be very approachable women should stand with their feet no farther than 6 inches apart with toes pointed slightly inward.
3. Other key moves – the nod and the head tilt – signal you’re listening to what the other person has to say.

Deadly Mistakes Men Make with Body Language

A lot of men show "dependent" body language when interacting with women. They try to act like the girl and try to do the same gestures that she is doing. This should not be the case. She has to be the one that orients herself to you.

• Darting eyes
• Fidgeting
• Stumbling over words
• Tentative gestures
• Nervous habits
• Staring at the floor
• “Leaning in”
• Stiffness
• Hunchback
• Weak handshake
• Cracking knuckles
• Moving your mouth/licking your lips a lot
• Too much eye contact/too little eye contact
• Nervous tics and breathing
• Watching instead of doing signals, self-consciousness and lack of leadership.

The Body Language Of Your Hands

It is your face that probably gets noticed first, but your hands get the most exposure: the most exposure to people, the sun and the elements. Because of that exposure, your hands are what is going to display your age. By taking proper care of your hands you will be able to look your best, and maybe even look younger than you thought you could. So take care of your hands, no matter what your age, and enjoy the benefits.

Body Language Used by Attractive Men

Women will notice you a lot more if you apply these. You have to portray strong body language from the very beginning of meeting a women. This will give her a good impression of you.

• Strong, secure eye contact
• Don't break eye contact first
• Dominant, confident posture and walk
• Slower-than-usual movements and gestures
• Unself-conscious demeanor
• Head up
• Lift the chest
• Take up space
• Legs slightly more than shoulder-width apart
• Hands in front or back pockets, at sides or arms crossed.
• Walk with a purpose

Body Language Across The Room

Here are signs of interest sent from across the room. Most are applicable to both sexes. The sequence of the list approximates the courtship sequence.
Frequency of eye contact, the more the better. Amount of time she, or he, holds your gaze, the longer the better. How she breaks off eye contact, down before away is great! Shine of the eyes, the brighter the better. Direction of body, toward you, good, away, bad.
Overall posture, erect and alert are good. Tilt of head, vertical is bad, increased tilt is great. Where the drink is held, high in front as a barrier, that's bad. Hand activity, clenched, squeezing or pinching is bad, open, caressing or stroking is great.

So here are some signs to show she is interested in you from across the room"

I'm Interested:

• Sidelong glance(s)
• Looks at you a few times
• Holds your gaze briefly
• Downcast eyes, then away
• Posture changes to alert
• Preens, adjusts hair, attire
• Turns body toward you
• Tilts head
• Narrows eyes slightly
• Smiles
• Matches your posture
• Eyes sparkle
• Licks her lips
• Thrusts breasts

Signs she is not interested in you:

Not Interested:

• Never sneaks a peek
• Fleeting eye contact
• Looks away quickly
• Looks away, eyes level
• Posture unchanged
• Does no preening
• Turns body away
• Head remains vertical
• Eyes remain normal
• Neutral, polite face
• Posture unchanged
• Normal or dull eyes
• Keeps mouth closed
• Sags to de-emphasize breasts