Tuesday 19 July 2011

Body Language Across The Room

Here are signs of interest sent from across the room. Most are applicable to both sexes. The sequence of the list approximates the courtship sequence.
Frequency of eye contact, the more the better. Amount of time she, or he, holds your gaze, the longer the better. How she breaks off eye contact, down before away is great! Shine of the eyes, the brighter the better. Direction of body, toward you, good, away, bad.
Overall posture, erect and alert are good. Tilt of head, vertical is bad, increased tilt is great. Where the drink is held, high in front as a barrier, that's bad. Hand activity, clenched, squeezing or pinching is bad, open, caressing or stroking is great.

So here are some signs to show she is interested in you from across the room"

I'm Interested:
  • Sidelong glance(s)
  • Looks at you a few times
  • Holds your gaze briefly
  • Downcast eyes, then away
  • Posture changes to alert
  • Preens, adjusts hair, attire
  • Turns body toward you
  • Tilts head
  • Narrows eyes slightly
  • Smiles
  • Matches your posture
  • Eyes sparkle
  • Licks her lips
  • Thrusts breasts

Signs she is not interested in you:

Not Interested:
  • Never sneaks a peek
  • Fleeting eye contact
  • Looks away quickly
  • Looks away, eyes level
  • Posture unchanged
  • Does no preening
  • Turns body away
  • Head remains vertical
  • Eyes remain normal
  • Neutral, polite face
  • Posture unchanged
  • Normal or dull eyes
  • Keeps mouth closed
  • Sags to de-emphasize breasts

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